“TRAFFIC TENSION AT RAILWAY LOCATION …!! ”

Since 1867, we have been  continuously very lucky as being the ticket holders  from  the  orang-ish central railway junction . Nagpur station has  drawn a line  of resistance  for all of us and has  been a strong supporter in the Nagpur’s economic phase.  Even ,the  Nagpurian  railway e---sssstyle  impresses those new “athithis” in  our city taking them back into the  old  foreign era. But,  one  problem   that  is  out of our confession is the traffic congestion at railway location. Seriously, this  dilemma can be  so much so synchronizing that it may destroy the  railway centralization.

                   Very often, we hear the term’ traffic  congestion’. Talking in  the orangish  e—ssstyle , the  word  ‘traffic  congestion ‘ is the so called ‘traffic  jam ‘, where  vehicles impede over each other blocking the entire traffic network. Traffic  near railway station is like the democratic process. Every time you think it's going to get moving and take you somewhere, you hit another jam.  Jam pe jam , jam pe jam  akhir kab tak, these endless troubles.  Generally,  this traffic congestion  eventuate at any time during day, noon and night and also  when the  train s are  either scheduled for arrival  or  departure. The number of hotels , the road-side  restaurants  and the  chaotic arrangements of  the fruit vendors have  been consequently creating troubles . The  potholes, the  disorganized drainage  system , the poor urinary habits  at the main entrance, the  unsystematic water flow on the main street , the less expanded roads  and the passing of heavy vehicles have also contributed  endlessly in  the  prejudicial  movements  of  traffic congestion. ‘Agglomeration ‘ , meaning the gathering of people  and  the  mixed   parking  strategies of  the 2-wheelers and 4-wheelers  respectively, have also been rectified as the major reasons for traffic congestions.  

                 Traffic congestion  involves queuing, slower speeds and increased travel times and also impacts the quality of life, stress, safety as well as impacts on non-vehicular  roadspace  users such as the users of sidewalks and road frontage properties.

                     It is  said that ,” Nothing is more imminent than the impossible . . . what we must always foresee is the unforeseen.”  So, there are many possible measures that can be deployed  to eradicate  or treat ‘congestion’:-

• ·         Proper road sanitization strategies.
• ·         Ensuring  that land use planning, and the community objectives it embodies, is coordinated with congestion management policies.
• ·         Deliver predictable travel times.
• ·         Effective organization of the road-side restaurants, fruit-vendors and drainage systems.
• ·         Managing highly trafficked roadways to preserve adequate system  performance.
• ·         Typical measures include planning and coordination of roadworks, speedy response to defective traffic signals and to disruptions caused by accidents and debris.
• ·         Appropriate  parking halls at the right directions.

The  question is not how should policies eradicate congestion but rather, how can authorities best avoid excessive congestion – for this is really what lies at the heart of congestion management policies .

Arrange marriage buzz in the city..!!

                  

           

                                  ARRANGE MARRIAGE BUZZ IN THE CITY..!!

            

                     The arrange marriage concept  in  bollywood movies made people fall in love with arrange marriages. The festive pre-wedding celebrations, the enormous enjoyment during the wedding and the heart touching moments post-wedding stole hearts all over the country. Innocent moments are always the integral part of arranged weddings. 

          Teenagers in the city are nowadays, more keen to go with arrange marriages. Arrange marriage is about compatibility and sustainability. Teenagers say, ”Even after all those insecurities and misunderstandings that emerge when two mismatched people marry. However, marriage emerges stronger than anything else”. Mutual trust and respect is the biggest asset of this marriage.

                Teenagers say,” love can bloom between two completely opposite people with trust being the essential element”. Presence of strong family ties also plays an essential role. Both the families are equally concerned about their children’s future. What makes arrange marriages lasts longer is love. It not only unites two hearts but, also families. Bond sharing and economic compatibility is worthwhile here .

              City teenagers are preserving their heritage and passing on the tradition to the future generation. But, what keeps this marriage lasting is the strong commitment and trust.

         

                       

FASHION...!!

Was that my fault…?? (Stop exploiting me now…!!!)

Days have gone and years crossed, but the only thing I wanted  to go off was a place beyond anyone’s reach, a place beyond the flow of time. But, there’s no place like that in  this world. Exactly, which is why I am living here; a place where things are continuously  damaging, where I have no liberty neither safety, a place where government exist but only for the governed,  a place where people part ways and provide no safety,  a place dumping my  way of  living , a place where a woman had lost her freedom, a place sounding like hell; where conditions are becoming irrevocable , a place only meant for a woman to fall with  the dark helpless hands not meant to lift her,  a place where I’m tired of being in trust less relationships,  a place where nobody wants to fall into a safety net, because it means the structure in which they've been living is in a state of collapse and they have no choice but to tumble downwards.  How helpless am I. Anything, just to get rid of  all this  feckless thoughts, whispers in my mind. But, still I have a considerate heart meant to flicker only my sentiments and emotions.

                  In this present era, should we treat ourselves as the independent agents, bestowing our safety?  Off course. But, being responsible has nothing to do with getting raped. We don’t get raped because we are drug  consumers,  because we are not careful enough, because we can dress the way we want, but we get raped  only because someone has raped us. And these rapists are not only those monsters and nightmares that come from the places like the nightling cities. But, some of those  are the people we know. People we thought we could trust.  Every time   when I read  those  incidents , I feel  the pain, the fear, the unseen deepest wounds, those lost and teary eyes, the hurt, and the completely broken frame of mind. I feel as if, it is that worst dream of night, you are thrown in the pit of danger, wherein she will cry loudly or silently,  but she’ll always be fended with those helpless hands. It has been surveyed that,” Half of all victims are aged twenty or younger at the time they are raped; three-quarters are between the ages of thirteen and twenty-six”. The period of greatest psychological vulnerability is also in reality the period of greatest traumatic exposure for us. This is so much so humiliating, that you cannot even windup all your fears and dilemmas and enter a situation where you are supposed to face the unknown world.

                  It is very well said that, ”Ugliness creates more ugliness, and no matter how touched by ugliness you are, you do not have to give in to it and start spreading it beyond yourself.” It is imperative  to fight, and fight again, and keep fighting, for only then could evil be kept at bay, though never quite eradicated. “My life will definitely  experience a normal glimpse and I will be back to my work , against all those disasters”,  as said by a victim.  I bow my head to you lady…!! No one’s gonna say that those monsters  who do such ugliness shouldn’t be put in jail, but let’s put two things into perspective here. One is, afterwards she knows something about herself that she never knew before. What she knows is that the most totally terrible terrifying thing that she could ever have imagined happening to her has now happened, and she survived. She’s still here, and now she knows something. I mean she really, really knows. And only you and you, can create a difference to enlighten and provide the strength and generate existence within a woman rather than exploiting her.  Take a moment and  just think about it. SAFETY ONLY KNOWS WORD, AND THAT IS YOU..!!