Come to my party, but doneeee come with your momma!!!

SPIT ’S’ VILLA….Openly!

Relationships are what you make them…!!

                                      

Relationships…..It actually starts with the day when we know nothing about each others, the day when the entire love starts showering unconditionally and the day with many mute yet fluidic motions glow the happiness on our faces. I started realizing this when the people I know worked endlessly and when my heart started fascinating them for their qualities and the respect. Being with your beloveds whosoever it may be  your  family, your siblings, your sweetheart, your soul mate or may be your best friend; you fell more safe because you are being protected from the harmful traits and rest is only about being with them in whatever situations you are put too. Relationships don’t compact you unless and until you are happy, but the minute egos crash you or your partners, you start blaming the things on cupid. A healthy relationship only demands nutrition of time and space both. And that is the big picture, to make you realize about your rights and wrongs. Emotional stability, insecurities, happiness and yes joy can be reflexive, but a pinch of restriction and lack of space can hamper the fresh air of closeness.

               Sometimes, it’s just life is only about what you and the way you can  make them to grow…No matter in whatever situations you have been to, you always need to act like the way the things didn't actually happen. It’s quiet difficult to match that desired frequency amongst the companies of all our beloveds, still we would continue to survive the hard and smooth times together. At times, you would fail to give the reasons or explanations why things happened, but still failing at that moment doesn't always mean failing every time. Keep trying to hold on those things, which you missed  back and raise your chin up in the skin to get the things cleared.  Whether it is your personal space; your grudges and your fights, still there are lot of things to do. Smile happily coz there are still many things to smile upon… 

The proposal story-3 !!

                                         


The story continues, with Samrat and Aishwarya. Aishwarya even after having so much love for Samrat, why did she uttered a "BUT" in her statement. The story continues:
 
      Aishwarya although mentally prepared to answer Samrat, was somewhere and somehow  struck to reveal about that harsh decision she had to take. Still, with mixed and strident feelings, she wrote,"Samrat, it's been 3 years since, we have been together as best friends. I really liked you on the very first day when we both got introduced to through our common friends. From friends to good friends, co-incidentally admitted  in the same Junior college and then from good friends to best friends by simply having common hangouts till exchanging notes. Everything was simply so simple, yet so difficult. I wanted to confess this  thing on the day, when you were relatively choosing a different profession . I know, career was the main reason for our separation, but still my heart  felt that I could have stopped you from taking a different profession. Even after this, we were together. I wanted to held you, held you so that you won't leave me; held you for the sake of being around you  and held you for the sake of getting close to you. But, Samrat now things have changed and preferences have changed".And with this note, she ended and pressed the sent button.
                  Samrat who was waiting intensely got the text and read the thing. He then quoted," Aishwarya I need to know what things have stopped you or what are your preferences? Did you start liking someone or won't your family accept us? Aishwarya without much waiting replied,"No Samrat, my family won't be the hurdle, neither I'm attracted to somebody else, but what is stopping me is our careers.Listen! We both are from different professions and even I have to get the best from my field and also you are supposed to build a foundation for me. I want to see you big and economically expanded. So that, when you come to my father, my father should not be left with a reason to reject you. Indeed, I would want you to take me with you without any hurdles.It was the career that separated us and now it will be our careers that will unite us.
       Samrat after reading this quoted,"Lady!When it comes to a choice, then every man or woman has to choose and I would choose you, not because I'll have to bear the consequences, but because I want to stand firmly to ask your father for you. Thank you, for making me and molding me and yes, it's my promise that this sunshine will keep radiating throughout the coming years of our lives.
               
                 This was the entire conversation that we all have been through, only considering that we would have played either Samrat or Aishwarya some days or years back. There is always a person standing for you and with you, who is responsible in pitting you  with all those dreams that you haven't  imagined ever. It was Aishwarya for Samrat and it would be someone else for you. Sometimes....it's not only about your happiness, it's about counting others happiness which will  make you feel happy.....!! We all share the same story, the only difference is that some of us realize it earlier, while some of us get it later.....!

The proposal story-2 !!

                                         


   Sorry! It's been two days and  I kept you all waiting. But, guys your wait ends here and here is the next part of the reply that Aishwarya gave to Samrat.
                       
                   Feeling Aishwarya speechless, Samrat texted her saying: Hey girl, u there?
                    Aishwarya after 5 minutes replied," Yes Samrat!! I'm here. Actually I was somewhere else"
                     Samrat after getting the text replied,"So, girl what is your answer?". Aishwarya who was already shy to reveal of what she felt, still texted resolutely saying,"Hey Samrat, morning!!. Samrat was waiting with that full swing to get the cell vibrated refreshingly. Soon, after this he recived,"Hey Samrat, morning!!". Reading this, he was like,"What? What is this?" and he replied her the same. Aishwarya then on seeing this replied,"Samrat, I texted you with this message because ,"A lot of things I did started with my great mornings, and you are my that sunshine which I want to spark my soul. Just like these mornings bring stimulating aromas to our lives, I want you to be my  coffee beans which would always taste my running priorities. Just like these morning birds chirp merrily, I want you to provide me with all those additional wings so that I can fly. Just like these morning winds breeze calmly, I want you to air that freshness in my habitat and just like these mornings carries everything in it's sphere, I want you to carry me through out my life....But".
                      Unnoticing the "but" element, Samrat looking at the statement he got too ecstatic and started flying in happiness. So after this he texted,"Now, this is a perfect morning. Good morning!! This morning multiplied my happiness and brought that tranquil which was missing somewhere. Thank you so much girl! Yes, I will be the reason for your happiness; Yes, I will be your wings;  Yes, I will be your sun and yes, I will be your mornings!!".
           
                     Aishwarya after reading this got completely insane with his statements, but at the same time she wrote something that turned Samrat's world upside down. She texted,"But.....But,  this morning will have some supernatural darkness". Upon getting this quote, Samrat got confused and he wrote," Well, I never expected a woman making the statement so difficult for me. What is the matter Aishwarya?".

                           What is the real problem with Aishwaraya? Why did she uttered a quote something like this? What things were haunting her? Was her direct acceptance to the proposal or was she in some sort of dilemmas? Getting to know more, wait for the conversation ahead.  Next part coming soon!! 

The proposal story!!

                                                   

Guys, the topic seem casual to you, isn't it? But, we all make the topic convoluted when it’s about 

approaching someone, don’t we? Confession is that state of admitting the things you felt or are feeling. Telling something to someone doesn't prove that you are wrong; it means that you did a right thing on a right moment.

                         Sometimes in our lives we come across situations  what Samrat and Aishwarya actually faced. They  were earlier friends, slowly good friends and then best friends . Things were normal and  they shared the same late night conversations. One day, in their  conversation:

     Samrat was in state that he couldn’t confess the things. So, Aishwarya   waited for him to say something  more”, but he was quiet. After this,

Aishwarya  texted, ”Is there something  you want to say”? He didn’t answer straightly, but he struggled while asking her,”If I ask you something, would you tell me the truth?”. Now, it was Aishwarya who got hesitated to reply. Still she answered, ”What?” Getting this answer, he asked her, ” Would you grow old with me and spend the rest of your years with me?”. Aishwarya while reading this text immediately started blushing and  was in her spontaneity to reply, but still was reaction less to reply him. Still she texted him after 5 minutes saying, ”What?”. Samrat replied hurriedly, ”You know it is getting hard for me, but still will you marry me?”. Aishwarya didn't respond for few seconds because her mind lagged and her body was feeling something different. Samrat again replied,”Say it girl. It is getting hard for me to wait”.

             So, what do you think could Aishwarya have replied? Has she said ‘yes’ or is she waiting for something? Could have she said ’no’ to Samrat and if ‘no’, then what could have been the reason? Will her answer ruin Samrat’s emotions or will he be that luckiest man? Hold your breathes and wait till tomorrow to get your answers cleared.

                    

Kuch bhi karoo….magar dil se kamyabi to sali jhak maar ke peeche bhagegi!!

Late night talks…Bin kahe bin sune, baat ho teri meri!!

Yeh to main scene hai!!

Why can’t boys read a girl’s mind?

I’m the queen of my mood swing..!!

BEING INTIMATED AT 16?

Tenderness, eagerness, liberties, love, violence and offcourse sex is what the things that credit us at 16. The day when you enter 16, all your hormones start answering the questions that were previously missed. Something new, something stupid and something strange starts contracting your nerves and mind. If you don’t know what is it actually, it’s just that you are entering the world of preparing yourself for your next phase. Swirling of thoughts and the thoughts of kissing someone is what sweet sixteen talks about. You see someone and your heart directly responds you back with the signals that yes this is someone I want to get cozy with. Although, you cannot express this, but yes your mind can read this thoroughly. Because you are somewhere afraid that ‘log kya kahenge’? But, I question you that what’s wrong in this? I mean are you afraid that losing your virginity at the age of 16 will create problems in your lives? But, every problem has an alternative, so you can opt out for various birth control measures. Once you will get older after this age, you will actually realize that this age (16) actually taught me a lesson of not repeating the same mistake again and again.

                   Guys, there’s nothing that happens without a reason. But, before getting intimate just keep in mind the pros and cons. Have an open discussion about your all your sex related doubts.  A clear and concise talk with help you and people realize the pros and cons of getting into this physical relationship. One day, a friend of mine discussed of how he got intimate with his friend on his birthday. A part of conversation that I would like to share here is:-

 X: Hey, Y! I’m feeling guilty for my last night’s scene with my girlfriend.

Y:Ok! What was the actual matter?

X: Last night, I actually slept with my girlfriend and after this I came to realize that I committed a sin. I destroyed her life and mine too. How will I be answerable to my parents? How will I met that girl again? And blab la bla.

Y: So, what’s wrong in that?

X: Don’t you think I actually did something wrong?

Y: No! I mean it’s ok, if you went physical with her. That thing cannot be brought up again and cannot be mended. Things happened, happened at 16 and you truly cannot deny the fact that there was something that made you to take this step. But, now there is a lifelong lesson which will prevent you from doing the same thing over and over.

                 Just being normal and composed to this act is the solution.  It is said that,”Think before you act”. So, while discussing with your beloveds about sharing a sexual relationship, just be frank and pour all your feelings on why you want to get intimate. Sixteen is the age of innocence, happiness and also about learning. So, when you are into that age don’t regret the things that have already taken place. Simply go with the flow and see to it that you won’t repeat the same thing again. Offcourse, questions and thoughts about been intimate will surely come to our minds and we cannot put an end to it, but you can be matured enough to handle the things more carefully. Getting intimate is not wrong, but getting intimate at 16 is difficult..!!