BEING INTIMATED AT 16?

Tenderness, eagerness, liberties, love, violence and offcourse sex is what the things that credit us at 16. The day when you enter 16, all your hormones start answering the questions that were previously missed. Something new, something stupid and something strange starts contracting your nerves and mind. If you don’t know what is it actually, it’s just that you are entering the world of preparing yourself for your next phase. Swirling of thoughts and the thoughts of kissing someone is what sweet sixteen talks about. You see someone and your heart directly responds you back with the signals that yes this is someone I want to get cozy with. Although, you cannot express this, but yes your mind can read this thoroughly. Because you are somewhere afraid that ‘log kya kahenge’? But, I question you that what’s wrong in this? I mean are you afraid that losing your virginity at the age of 16 will create problems in your lives? But, every problem has an alternative, so you can opt out for various birth control measures. Once you will get older after this age, you will actually realize that this age (16) actually taught me a lesson of not repeating the same mistake again and again.

                   Guys, there’s nothing that happens without a reason. But, before getting intimate just keep in mind the pros and cons. Have an open discussion about your all your sex related doubts.  A clear and concise talk with help you and people realize the pros and cons of getting into this physical relationship. One day, a friend of mine discussed of how he got intimate with his friend on his birthday. A part of conversation that I would like to share here is:-

 X: Hey, Y! I’m feeling guilty for my last night’s scene with my girlfriend.

Y:Ok! What was the actual matter?

X: Last night, I actually slept with my girlfriend and after this I came to realize that I committed a sin. I destroyed her life and mine too. How will I be answerable to my parents? How will I met that girl again? And blab la bla.

Y: So, what’s wrong in that?

X: Don’t you think I actually did something wrong?

Y: No! I mean it’s ok, if you went physical with her. That thing cannot be brought up again and cannot be mended. Things happened, happened at 16 and you truly cannot deny the fact that there was something that made you to take this step. But, now there is a lifelong lesson which will prevent you from doing the same thing over and over.

                 Just being normal and composed to this act is the solution.  It is said that,”Think before you act”. So, while discussing with your beloveds about sharing a sexual relationship, just be frank and pour all your feelings on why you want to get intimate. Sixteen is the age of innocence, happiness and also about learning. So, when you are into that age don’t regret the things that have already taken place. Simply go with the flow and see to it that you won’t repeat the same thing again. Offcourse, questions and thoughts about been intimate will surely come to our minds and we cannot put an end to it, but you can be matured enough to handle the things more carefully. Getting intimate is not wrong, but getting intimate at 16 is difficult..!!